How to make the cake mixture by hand? In a bowl, mash the cooked sweet potatoes with a fork while it is hot. In a separate bowl, beat the egg, egg yolk, sugar, salt, rum, and vanilla. Add half of the milk and mix. (Do not add all the milk at once). Add the mashed potatoes to the egg mixture and mix until just combined. Add more milk as needed until you have a doughy mixture. Add melted butter and mix until just combined. Add ground nuts and cinnamon if using and mix until just combined.